Saturday, March 14, 2020
How to Bounce Back When You Make a Mistake at Work
How to Bounce Back When You Make a Mistake at WorkThe reply-all with a snarky comment, when you meant to forward to a trusted friend. googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) The dropped ball that caused you to miss a major deadline.The Im disappointed in you talk from your boss.So youve made a major mistake at work. Or youve gotten a poor review, or maybe you just feel like youre coasting along, performing way below your ability. Whatever the reason, you feel like youre just barely holding on. What can youdo when you make a mistake at work?At some point in their career, everyone has a stumbling point. Sometimes mistakes happen due to being overwhelmed, making an oversight, or having a moment of carelessness. It happens to everyone, even the fruchtwein conscientious employee. So when something happens and you feel like youre sitting in the corner of shame, remember that youre bedrngnis the only one. Even the people who are angry with you have bee n there (or will be) at some point, so try elend to take it too personally.The Aftermath of your GaffeAfter a mistake, it can feel like youre stuck in a kind of purgatory. Am I going to get fired? Have I totally ruined my reputation? And everything, every little bobble or mistake, feels magnified. Its important bedrngnis to get stuck under this tidal wave of stress and worry. Once youve made a mistake, or been called out for poor performance, the most important thing is to step up.Apologize/acknowledge what happened.You dont need to wear a sandwich board saying, I screwed up, but letting your boss (and anyone affected by the mistake) know that you understand how you failed is key. If you messed up, a simple Im sorry goes a long way here, just like it does in all aspects of life. And FYI Im sorry you feel that way is bedrngnis a legit apology here.Own itAccept responsibility for what happened. Resist the urge to throw anyone under the bus here it wont lessen your own consequences, an d will just cause further issues and bad blood. Thats not to say you should take all blame rather, if its a shared mistake or problem, be clear about your parte in the mistake, and take your share of the blame. Naming names, or the kindergarten classic but he welches doing it too wont get you any brownie points right now.Show that it wont happen againIf it was a lapse on your part, let people know that youre taking action to make aya it doesnt happen again. If it was a process that failed, show how youre changing things so that theres not a repeat.Look for small winsUnfairly or not, youre likely going to be under increased scrutiny for some period of time, while things are still recent and raw. In addition to making aya the blunder isnt repeated, it couldnt hurt to be an A+ employee for a while show up early, stay late, put in extra hours to show that youre back on it. Take on extra projects to demonstrate your commitment to the job. Its about rebuilding others confidence in you, su re, but its just as much about rebuilding your own confidence. Succeeding at things, even small ones, can help you get back into your groove while showing everyone else that youre ready to move onward and upward.Move onIf its not a fatal (e.g. firing) mistake (more on that in a bit), this too shall pass. Odds are, things will get back to normal pretty quickly. And while you cant erase what happened, or make everyone forget what you did, everyone has a job to do. This incident will get lost in the shuffle of everyday work. You might have a rough few weeks, but at some point youll notice that things have gotten back to the routine.Ask Yourself Why Did This Happen?Once youve got the problem in hand and have started your apology tour, you have some space to think more about why this happened. Sometimes mistakes just come out of the blue, in a moment of inattention or poor decision-making. Other times theyre part of a pattern of carelessness, or a lack of caring about the job. So after y ouve started the damage control process, its time to figure out why youre in this situation in the first place.Did I make this mistake/perform poorly because I dont care about this job anymore?Did I make this mistake/perform poorly because Im overwhelmed by my job, and need to make adjustments?Did this happen because I dont have the right skill set, or need to know more about how things work?If you made the mistake or got a poor performance review because youre just not into your jobIt might be time to get out. Its not ideal to quit straightawayits much better to start exploring your options and opportunities before you jump ship. But if youre already performing at a lower level because youre unhappy or disinterested, thats a major red flag.If the performance issue was due to you being overwhelmed by your jobTalk to your boss. ASAP. Its time for a very frank discussion about your priorities, your tasks, and your role. If things dont change and performance continues to slide, that wi ll be on you, and it will make things even more uncomfortable. Your boss has a strong interest in making sure you perform your best and stay a satisfied employee, so dont fear the conversation. It might be possible to restructure your daily tasks, or find new ways to do them, so that youre able to do your job at the level you know you can hit.If the mistakes are happening because you dont have the right skill setYou need to figure out what youre lacking, and strategize how to either a) get those skills and knowledge or b) share responsibilities in a way that works for you and your team. It may be that this is something you can handle on your own (for example, getting trained on a particular kind of software, or taking online seminars about time management). But it may well be that you need help from someone else in your company, and thats okay. If you need to sit down with someone to understand processes or tasks, do it. If you need help from your boss prioritizing, ask for it. This goes back to showing that youve learned from past mistakes, and are trying to get stronger.What If Im Fired As a Result?Some mistakes, well, sorry to say that you cant bounce back so easily and keep your job. Say there was a major money loss, or you happened to do something that was considered unforgiveable by the powers that be. If this turns out to be the case, and youre let go for cause, your career is not over. Remember before, when I mentioned that you have to work hard to prove yourself and move on? Thats doubly true if youre firedand you have to cope with that while also looking for a new job. So its not an easy road, but also not impossible.If you lose your job because of performance issues, you still have options1. Dont put off your job search.It can be tempting to lay low for a while, but the longer you wait, youre delaying the inevitable moment you get back out there. You also run the risk of (unintentionally) reinforcing the idea that youre unhireable, the longer you st ay out of the game. As with a big mistake, accept that it happened, think about how you can do better, and find ways to improve and make yourself a stronger candidate.2. Think hard about what you want to do.Is your field really a good fit for you, after how things ended at your brde place? If it was just the company or the role that was the problem, thats a pretty straightforward fix. But this is a chance to think about what you should really be doing next.3. Get your references in place.Given how things ended, you probably wont want your most recent boss to sing your praises (especially if youre not sure what he/she will say), but you can still get former colleagues from other jobs, or people in your network to act as references.4. Spin it.You lost your job, and thats going to come up when someone sees an end date on your resume, or asks why you left your last job. The important thing is to turn the narrative into a more positive one. I left my last position because it wasnt a good fit. Im ready to move on to the next challenge. Its a little vague and not ideal, but its also not a brutally honest, I got fired. Hire me please? Keep in mind that the reasons you were let go might come up during a background or reference check, so its best not to flat-out lie about your reasons for leaving.While youre looking for a new job, the old one might haunt you somewhat. But again, its important to acknowledge, accept, and move on with your life. Everyone loves a good comeback story, and if you work hard to be better than your past mistakes, you can pull yourself up and out of the muck. You can survive, you will survive, and youll walk away with some very hard-won insight about yourself and your career.
Tuesday, March 10, 2020
Quitting Your Job 9 Signs Its Time to Move on
Quitting Your Job 9 Signs Its Time to Move on Lately, the thought of one, two, or several more years at the your current job fills you with dread. At one point in your career, when you had just gotten the position, you were excited at the chance of leading the team in company projects, dealing with clients, and managing your business duties.Now, you are more or less struggling to get by in the 9-to-5 grindbecause you are bored or stressed or perhaps even both. When you think about it, you can vaguely remember the better times before lately,and, now that you mention it, how long has lately been?The truth is, if you are finding yourself less engaged with your work and are weighing your vorkaufsrechts, know that you are bedrngnislage alone. According to a Gallup study, more than half of the American workforce (51%) are not engaged in their jobs. In other words, a lot of employees feel indifferent, neither loving nor hating their full-time jobs. That, in turn, leaves quitting up in the a ir. Should you stay? Should you go?If you are one of these 51%, read on for signs that can help you determine if quitting your current job is the right move for you.1. Your Work Environment Is ToxicPerhaps your work environment wasnt always so cut throat and competitive. But after management turnover and your employers rebranding phase, you have noticed a toxic culture shift. Coworkers undermine one anothers success in an attempt to outperform and earn that promotion. With people forming cliques and engaging in excessive company gossip, work seems more like high school than the corporate world.2. Every Day is Groundhog DayYou have your erfahrung pegged down to the very minute. While routines are important and add stability, having the same one day in and day out, where there is very little change or challenge, can lead to boredom with your current position.When you are bored with your job, you are not in a state of flow a state of complete immersion in an activity, as Very Well Mind states. Flow occurs when you are using a high level of skill to overcome a high degree of challenge. This is the opposite of boredom, which Mihly Cskszentmihly, a positive psychologist who coined the term flow, attributes to medium skill and low challenge.In order to make your job more flow-able, you may have to spend more time working on more demanding tasks that require you to use all of your skill sets. Another option is telling your babo that you want that promotion so you can develop new skills and be challenged.3. Your Job Is Too ChallengingWhile being challenged at work can allow you to hone your skill sets and grow, facing constant, overly challenging work can wear you down, not to mention cause stress.You may not have received the training necessary to complete these challenging job duties, or perhaps you didnt realize how rigorous they were. If thats the case, it may be time to have a discussion with HR and/or management to figure out how you can accomplish these tasks wi thout constantly being overwhelmed.4. You Dont Enjoy Your JobWhen you say you live for your weekends, you mean it. On Sunday, you dread the upcoming work week. This could be because of the office culture and colleagues, orlets face it you just dont like your job.If you are unsure of what the problem is, track your mood on the calendar. For every day you feel happy, scribble a smiley face. badeanstalteanstalt day? Put down a frown face. Is there a pattern? Are you not happy during most of the week? Or month? Do these days coincide with when you work? You may be surprised to realize how unhappy you are during the work week, and it could be time to quit.5. You Arent Getting What You WantAccording to Forbes, most employees want a fair salary, health insurance and work-life balance from their employer. (Of course, your wants could be different.) If the company you work for is only providing you with a good benefits package, but your salary is low, or you routinely work late evenings and weekends, you are only getting part of what you want.Why settle for partially getting what you want when you could work for a company that meets all of your wants? Needless to say, if you are on track to getting all of your wants in the near future (i.e. job promotion, more money, etc.), you may decide to stick it outor negotiate for higher compensation with your employer to get these benefits sooner. Still, it does not hurt to look around to see what other companies are offering.6. Your Job Is Too StressfulFifty-three% of the global workforce admits they are closer to burnout compared to the situation five years ago. In other words, for more than half of the working population, office life could not be more stressful, and you are part of that population.Physical and emotional stress symptomssuch as headaches, insomnia, muscle tension, anxiety, agitation, and depressionare common for you.To save your health, you need to talk to your boss about your stress levels. If that doesnt work , consider quitting your job and looking for another it is not worth risking your health for your current employer.7. You Are Repeatedly Passed for a PromotionYou have worked for your company for years. Youve put your time in, turned in consistent and top-notch work, and are well-liked among coworkers and management. Yet, it seems like no matter what you do, you are passed for a promotion time and time again. If this is the case for you, you might want to think about looking for a new job.Before you submit your resignation letter...If you are considering turning in your resignation letter, you may want to hold off if you havent spoken to your manager about your career goalsfeedback and promotion included. While it may seem like this is an overly aggressive move, according to Harvard Business Review, it is anything but. You may be surprised to find that speaking up about wanting a promotion is one step toward getting it.8. The Company Doesnt Align with Your ValuesYour values dont lin e up with your companys.This makes it hard (if not almost impossible) to have a purposeful, meaningful job.It may be best then to look elsewhere to find a new job where the company shares your values, whether those values are status-oriented, affiliation, or learning values.9. You Complain About Your JobThis is not an out-of-the-blue rant about a bad day at work. When people ask you about how your job is going, your first instinct is to list the reasons why you dont like it. This does not happen once but multiple times. By now, the only person who seems to not know how much you dont like your current employer is you.If you find yourself biting your lip when you say work is goodbecause it isntit may be time to leave your current position and move on to greener pastures a job you love and cannot wait to talk about.Quitting Your Job Should You Do It?At the end of the day, it is up to you whether leaving your current employment is a good career move. If one or more of these signs sounds familiar to you, it may be time to evaluate your job and start a new job search.
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